Dancing with the Ancestors

So this crazy thing recently happened to me at a Malagasy music concert. The nature of the event that occurred might freak or weird some people out, so before I tell my story, I'm going to give some background information to help make it all a little less...shocking....

Traditionally, Madagascar has animism and ancestral-based spiritual beliefs. Specifically, there is a belief that the spirits of ancestors can reside in sacred places, in certain trees, and in special people. This traditional belief system is still practiced today. Groups who follow this have special possession ceremonies where individuals can gain the spirit of an ancestor to coexist with their own. These ancestral spirits are called "trombas." People who have a tromba are unique but not necessarily uncommon.* For the most part, the people continue to have perfectly normal and functional lives. Sometimes there are diet or other restrictions in accordance with the restrictions of the specific tromba. Then, occasionally, there are instances where the tromba is...activated....

Three Key Lessons Learned in Year One

This month I had my one year anniversary for living in my Malagasy village. I've already spent one whole year in my community! Looking back on this Year One of my Peace Corps service, I definitely can sum it up as a totes adaladala experience. I saw a lot of places, did a lot of things, and felt a lot of feels. Through the adventures, trials, and seasons of it all, the lessons I have learned are beyond measure. And because the lessons are many and sometimes indescribable, it has taken me a while to process them all. But in this reflection, I've identified three lessons that I have had the greatest impact on me at this time...

Lesson 1: Not only can I still be friends with people I disagree with, but I can actually learn a whole lot from them even as we disagree.

Jamie and Brienne in Game of Thrones. Image from tumbler

It's not easy to be around people who don't see eye-to-eye with you, whether that be in politics, values, cultural differences, or the quality of Justin Bieber's music. Because of this, I think it is often too easy for us to surround ourselves with only the people and ideas we agree with and then shut out, dismiss, or even become aggressive towards anything opposite or outside of our set way of thinking. I sometimes did this in the United States whether I meant to or not; I did know several people very different from myself, but I never had to spend time with them on a consistent basis or build more meaningful relationships with them because is was so easy and convenient to surround myself with people just like me. But now that I'm in Madagascar, that is no longer an option simply because people just like me don't exist here. So, in this last year on the Red Island I've been strongly challenged to live, work, and go to a deeper human level with people different from me on an everyday basis.